These pieces compile a "life dream" structure discussed regularly in consultations.
1. Get a good stable job or career in something that is going to generate a good salary, bonus if I actually like doing the work.
2. Meet a "good" partner- whatever definition works for them here.
3. Get married.
4. Buy a house. Get all this shit set up to get to #5.
5. Have a kid or a few.
6. Live and do stuff for a bunch of years.
7. Retire, now I get to do what I want... maybe travel!
Maybe this structure, or some pieces, are the dream, but maybe they aren't, for you.
In today's very loud society, doing what we want is a challenge.
Time to identify authenticity.
In general, the big lifestyle influences on this "life dream" come from family, friends, social media, and news media all throwing out pictures of their version of success. When living out a picture constructed from an outside influence, your power to create your individual feeling of success for your life is lost. You end up reluctantly emulating how they live, what they buy, how to chose a partner, all thinking its going to get you to happiness or contentment. It never does, it just a cyclical trap, and we all know what that nasty trap feels like.
Psychic attack on your life dreams can feel like general lethargy, frustration or anger that comes out of no where and hangs out for no apparent reason, over any given amount of time.
Some possible examples of actions that are a result of experiencing these uncomfortable feelings can be overindulgence in food or drink, over-working, doing more for others than ourselves, constantly having the TV on or engaging in social media, or constantly running errands. Insert yours at will here.
These are numbing techniques used in denying the feeling we all know lies underneath, the intimidation of needing to change.
Yet, these feelings are great clues letting you know that your spirit needs attention that it has not been getting lately.
It is asking you to honestly examine what you have created in your life, decide if the pieces in question are actually what you want, and then having the discipline and determination to change what is not working.
In the consultation, I work with the client to get present with their spirit's information, seeing what is at the heart of the matter. This is always the authentic road to feeling personally empowered and successful in life.
We all have the power to be happy, feel successful, and give to society in our most positive way. Throw out the plan! Activate your own awareness as your guide, one choice at a time.
Sharing the steeped thoughts of my life as a Psychic Medium.